I have recently came to the conclusion no matter what you do or, how well meaning you are in your actions, someone is not going to like what you do. Recently I took and action I felt I had to take for the greater good, but now someone I care about very much is quite angry with me. I do not know why I was seen as wrong for standing up for those that stood up for me, but the way I see it if I could forgive this person for not standing by my side when I really wanted it in the past. Then this person should be just as willing to forgive me for doing something that hurt them. If a friend is really a friend they will forgive each other right? And if they are not willing to forgive you when you have forgiven them in the past apparently they are not as good a friend to you as you were to them.
On a side note my mom always said Eavesdroppers hear not good of themselves. I hope you know what I mean. lol