Have you ever been accused of something you did not do? I have many times and it makes me mad when it happens. Well last night same thing happened to a friend of mine. He like myself can do enough to get ourselves in trouble we do not need anyone's help to get us into trouble. I look out for this boy, because he is so much now like I was in 2007. I see so much of myself in him so I usually can tell when he really did something wrong and when someone is just assuming he did something wrong. I hate when people assume facts not in evidence. If you are going to get mad at someone you should have all the facts and know for sure that they did in fact do what you suspect they did, BEFORE YOU GO JUMPING THEM ABOUT IT.
I go a call late last night about something this boy was supposed to have done. In less then 20 min I proved HE DID NOT DO IT, I then went and jumped one of the people that started the lie. I will get the other one tomorrow. I feel we should all let everyone get themselves in trouble we should not lie to help them get into trouble.
If someone tells you another person did something they should not have. You need to ask them what proof do you have they did that? Many times people assume because someone did a similar thing in the past that they must have done this too. It is not always true. Just because someone has done something similar or even the same thing in the past it does not mean they are the one that did it now. That kind of assumptions is my pet peeve, because I myself have been the victim of such assumptions in the past, and hate to see anyone else being falsely accused.
My motto is : ALWAYS GET THE FACTS BEFORE APPROCHING ANY PROBLEM! No two people see things exactly the same but the facts do not lie.
